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Monday, December 19, 2011

OUR BOOKS

The following is my attempt to make a short video advertising us as authors and our books. I am pleased to say that all the covers, with the exception of The Caregiver's Story are my work as photographer and cover designer.

Our books are available at Amazon.com.



Tuesday, December 13, 2011

THE BICYCLE MAN

It was a wintry Christmas morning. A young pajama-clad boy stood in the doorway of his dilapidated wood-framed home, watching a heavily-clad man walking up the sidewalk. His face lit up and a smile spread on his face at seeing what the man had in his hands. “Mommy, Mommy, its Santa Claus,” he exclaimed.

***

I completed my tour in the military in 1965. As destiny would have it, I landed in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, working for a major oil company. Within months, my job relocated me to White Bear Lake, Minnesota, a small community just outside St. Paul.

I quickly adjusted to the move. With sheer persistence from a friend, I joined the local Knights of Columbus—a Christian organization.

"Joe, we are having a meeting of the KC tonight. Would you like to come along with me?" I can't the number of times I heard this from my good friend, Jerry.

One night I had reached my limit. “Jerry,” I said, “What are the Knights of Columbus all about anyway? Why should I join?”

"The KC helps families obtain economic security and stability through its life insurance, annuity and long-term care programs. It also contributes time and energy worldwide to service in communities. I think you'd like being part of this."

It stirred me when he said service to communities. Yes, I wanted to share faith, hope, and charity by being part of something that helped the community. "Alright, Jerry, I'll accept your invitation and joining the Knights of Columbus."

I worked whole-heartily in the KC but felt the organization needed publicity. Word had gotten out that I was a writer—a poet to be exact. The members felt I would be valuable as Council Activity Director, reporting activities and promoting membership.
The most heartwarming part of being a member of this organization was carrying on the tradition of providing toys for the needy children at Christmas.

I grew up the adopted son of a sharecropper, and times were tough. I've memories of the cotton stalk Christmas tree, we had when I was a young lad, so I've always understood hardships. Therefore, as I rose through the ranks, I became active collecting toys for the needy children.

The fire department felt that junk was being donated. This presented a crisis. Therefore, I volunteered to take charge of donations and placed an article in the local newspaper, requesting donations of tricycles and usable toys to be brought to a vacant school.

The article stated tricycles, but bicycles were being donated as well.  Soon I had so many bicycles that I became known as The Bicycle Man. Many of the bikes were in need of repair, so I brought them to my garage. Before long, I had fifteen to twenty bikes in my garage.

Knowing I needed help, I prayed. James, a sixteen-year-old son of a KC member answered the call. This invaluable young Christian man worked to get the bikes repaired in time for Christmas delivery.

It was a wintry Christmas morning when I loaded my Chevy with bicycles for needy children and drove to an older neighborhood. I parked my car, took out a bicycle, and began walking up the uneven and cracked sidewalk.

A young pajama-clad boy stood in the glass-paned doorway of his dilapidated wood-framed home, watching this heavily-clad man walking up the sidewalk. His face lit up and a smile spread on his face at seeing what this man had in his hands. “Mommy, Mommy, its Santa Claus,” he exclaimed.

Only once in a lifetime this could have happened that I could feel the smile on the young boys face. It was my most memorable experience and one I'll never forget.

"Thank you, Santa Claus." Tears of joy filled the mother's eyes.

Once again, my job transferred me, so this was my last year to serve in the Knights of Columbus.  In spring, and my time to leave, the headmaster of the council had an appreciation social for me, following mass.

During a time of enjoying refreshments, I spotted a friend. "Jerry, I can never thank you enough for talking me into joining the KC. It's been a pleasure."

"Joe, the pleasure was mine. Just seeing how you had a heart for the needy and worked hard at making their Christmas special--it warmed my heart. I'm going to miss you." Interrupted by the headmaster, our conversation ended.

"Joe, will you come up here for a minute?"

Setting my punch and cookie aside, I made my way to the front and stood near the headmaster. To my great surprise, he presented me with a plaque engraved The Bicycle Man.
“Thank you Bicycle Man for your heart-felt service in our organization and for being a shining example of what the Christian faith is about.”

Tears filled my eyes and emotion filled my throat. "Thank you. It's been an honor to serve in this wonderful organization. I'm happy for the good I've done and pleased to wear the title The Bicycle Man."

Joseph A. Zapalac, Author





Saturday, December 10, 2011

THE SMILE

The feeling of Christmas is in the air. People are shopping for those special gifts for everyone on their list. At least one hundred booths are lined up, displaying various items.

A young woman enters the craft show, wearing a shimmering as-if-dusted-with-stardust white dress and a holly-wreath pin on her left shoulder.

Just inside the entrance is a table that catches her eye with it's display of five attractive books. She does a double take as if she recognizes the man sitting behind the table, but says nothing.

Sitting center stage on three metal display frames are Treasured Memories, Rockin Chair Cowboys, and The Caregiver's Story. On each side, Reflections and Ribbons and Roses, the two poetry/prose books lay. Balancing out the table is promotional material, consisting of business cards, bookmarkers, flyers and a few other speciality items.

As she glances at the table and starts to pass, he says, "Merry Christmas," and hands her a bookmarker. As their eyes meet he thinks to himself...she looks very familiar. She reminds me of someone...but this woman is much younger.

"Thank you. What a lovely bookmarker," the young woman says.

"My very talented writing partner, makes them. She's also a photographer and is responsible for all the covers you see on these books...with the exception of this one. He points to The Caregiver's Story.

"Oh, my; she's very good." She picks up the book Ribbons and Roses with the cover of a rose, small picture frame, and potpourri...all resting on some lace fabric.

"Do you like poetry or prose?" He asked. She doesn't respond. Perhaps she didn't hear?  She slowly turns the pages of the book, letting her hand rest occasionally. A story titled "Red and Green Tissue Paper" catches her eye.

She begins reading silently to herself. Was it his imagination or does there seem to be a glow about her head...almost like a halo. It's only the lightening, he reasons to himself.

"Oh, this reminds me of the stories my grandmother told me of when she was a young girl, living with her parents in the country." A smile crept across her lips and her blue eyes had a sparkle in them. "How much is this book?"

"Sixteen dollars...or any two books for thirty, or any three for forty-three." She picks up several other display books and looks through them.

"I know my daughters would love these books of short stories and I would like this one," she said, holding out the book with the "tissue" story.

The excited booth operator, and author, is pleased to have made a sale. After collecting the forty-three dollars, he asks, "How would you like them autographed?"

"If you would be so kind to inscribe this one to Mary, the other to Annie. That would be wonderful."

Sitting at the table, the local author inscribs the two books and then reaches for the book in her hand. "What about that one?" He knows it is for the women standing in front of him; he just doesn't know her name.

"Helen. Make it to Helen," she says.

Hearing that name sends a tingle through his spine. He once knew a wonderfully sweet lady named Helen. She used to sit next to him in church. However, Helen was much older than this woman, and she no longer walked this planet...but streets of gold. She now breathed celestial air, and sang in a choir of angels.

With shaking hand, Joseph writes "To Helen...Your presence today blessed me. May joy fill your heart upon reading this book. Best Wishes, Joseph A. Zapalac"

The angelic lady turn to walk away when he picks up a ribbon rose from the table, "Wait. I want you to have this rose."


She turns and reaches her hand to take the pastel pink ribbon rose. She smiles. It's then that he notices...it's Helen's smile.

~Vada

Friday, December 9, 2011

A CHRISTMAS WRECK

HE HEALS THE BROKENHEARTED AND BINDS UP THEIR WOUNDS.
Psalm 147:3 NKJ

You may experience, as I do, Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD). It is a type of depression that tends to occur (and recur) as the days grow shorter in the fall and winter. No matter how hard I try to overcome, I find myself sad at this time of year.

Yes, I know this is the season to remember the reason for the season--Jesus Christ.  I know that God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son as His Greatest Gift to mankind. I know this Gift was packaged in a tiny, innocent baby...swaddled in clothes and placed in a manger.

Yet, sadly enough, it is the season when many are discouraged, downhearted, and broken. Many can't face brokenness and depression. Many find it depressing to think of all the commercialism of the season, the buying of gifts for those on our lists with whom we have lost touch with, and the expense of it all.

I think of my paternal Grandmother, how she never bought me a gift at Christmas. She'd say, "Vada, it's not your birthday...it's Jesus' birthday." And that was that. 

I've tried carrying on her tradition of buying birthday gifts during the year for everyone...a gift for "their" special day. However, when Christmas rolls around, I find myself in the same dilemma...what to buy everyone. I suppose I got that from my Mama; she found great joy in giving gifts for every occasion.

With my mixed background of traditions, I'm a Christmas Wreck. However, I'm thankful that I can still appreciate the Christmas carols...and lean on God's Word.


Our Children Christmas 2010
Rhonda, *Crystal, *Gale, *Kurt, Scott, Dawn, *Sanee, and Katrina
*Step Children

~Vada for...
Vada and Joe

Thursday, December 8, 2011

JOURNEY IN PHOTOS

In place of today's post, I worked on one of the pages. Journey in Photos takes you on our journey as writing partners and also shares some of my photography.

~Vada for...
Vada and Joe

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

THE RAILROAD STATION

The Japanese attacked Pearl Harbor on December 7, 1941 entering the United States in World War II. Young men and women from all over were going off to war, never knowing if they would come back...or not. Frightened out of their wits, they donned the uniform and fought to defend our country.

Ten days following the attack on Pearl Harbor, there was a train coming through a quaint town of 12,000 people. The word got out that it was this little town's own National Guard[So] Some of the people got together and baked cookies and cakes and went to the train station to give to them.

When they got there with their cakes and cookies and look in in the train windows, it turned out it wasn't any of their guys. It was the Kansas National Guard.

They stood there wondering what to do with all the food they had brought until one woman said, "Well, I'm not taking my cookies home."

Ray Wilson, a drug store clerk, stepped up to the train and gave her cookies to one of the guys. Soon all the others began doing the same thing. It wasn't long afterward that the military started moving Army troops through this little town.

That drug store clerk organized some women and decided to meet the trains as they moved through Nebraska, carrying boys to war. Over the next four and one-half years, those women met every train, sometimes up to thirty-two trains a day.

Eventually, the Union Pacific Railroad gave that station to the women serving the men; they named it North Platte Canteen.

These young men on the trains had ten minutes to run into the canteen to grab hot coffee, donuts, a sandwich, or cookies. Then they'd get back on the train...many never to return.

Six million men and women came through that station over the course of the war. One guy said, "I graduated, enlisted, and rode three days and nights. The train stopped at a place called North Platte, Nebraska. I jumped off the train, and I saw girls who could be my sister. The women reminded me of my mom. They hugged us and gave us food. We got back on the train, scared out of our mind, but for ten minutes...that fear went away."

Sitting in a foxhole with bullets blazing and death all around, someone said, "Wouldn't it be great to be in North Platte for ten minutes?"

This eighteen-year old boy had tasted the food and felt the love and kindness of those young girls and women at the Union Pacific Railroad station...and for ten minutes, he felt loved...and safe.

A young woman wondered if her grandfather had gone through North Platte when he was in the military. She makes a visit to the home, and sitting in his room...she holds his hand, and said, "Grandpa, does the name North Platte, Nebraska mean anything to you?"

The ninety-year old man, who prior to the question sat staring out the window, wondering where time had gone...his thoughts are cloudy. He suffers from dementia, but her question, like a spark, brought him back.

"North Platte...you bet it does! They gave me coffee and donuts...and they shined my shoes. You bet I remember North Platte, Nebraska.

Just as quickly as the mind drifted to that place, it now was like a dying ember. For an instant he remembered, but now the memory fades into nothing.

You ask...what is it that many years after the war would bring a ninety-year old man out of dementia? It's when you are eighteen...and scared...and going to war...and someone loves you and is kind to you.

~Written by Vada M. Wolter, taken from our book "Treasured Memories" 



Thank you for reading our blog,
Vada and Joe

Tuesday, December 6, 2011

CHRISTMAS BELLS AND PETTICOATS

(From our book Treasured Memories)


Back in the late fifties, when I was in the seventh and eighth grades, all the girls would wear very full skirts and lots of petticoats…or crinolines. The heavy petticoats had to be held up with a tight stretchy belt. The skirts were so full that only one girl could get through the door at one time.

Two weeks before Christmas, all the girls would use safety pins to pin jingle bells to their many petticoats. If you didn’t have bells on your petticoats, there was always someone who had extra bells and pins to share with you.

When the class bell would ring, you couldn’t hear anything in the hallways…except bells. The teachers had to use whistles and blow very loudly if someone was misbehaving. I know the teachers were relieved when Christmas was over.


Lillie Cook


Lillie Cook, born and raised in Wharton County and the younger of two children. She is mother to five children, grandmother to seven, and great grandmother to five—four living. Her time is spent being caregiver for her husband.

Sunday, December 4, 2011

RED AND GREEN TISSUE

A week before Christmas, Mother started cooking cakes, pies, and, of course, plenty of her cornbread dressing--cooked with the fattest hen.

Daddy and the older boys would butcher the finest hog...our mother usually supervised the sausage making. I can still hear her say, "It needs a little more sage!"

There was lots of ham, bacon, sausage, and lots of relatives and neighbors to share it with. The house was usually full of people from Christmas until after New Year's Day.

The perfect Christmas tree, which Daddy, the older children, and I (the youngest of eight) had walked for hours to find, stood in the old house with its top reaching the tall ceiling. (The time to go choose a Christmas tree is when it's very cold, sleeting, or perhaps snowing a little.)

The decorated three (a beautiful holly tree with red berries or perhaps a cedar tree) was decorated, for the most part. We used a little silver rope for icicles. The last thing to do was to tie big red apples in the tree. We decorated the tree as a family group. Though times were hard--my parents always managed a bushel basket of apples, one of oranges, and one of nuts.

Our stockings were usually hung near the old wood heater. And Santa without fail (nearly always) came through. And always, there in top of our stockings, we found our Christmas present from Santa wrapped in red and green tissue paper.

To this day, seeing red and green tissue paper or holly trees takes me back to those Christmases of long ago.

I remember a few times, our mother worried, "The creeks may rise, and Santa's reindeer won't be able to get across!" When that happened, once or twice, there was always an extra big gift of love and warm family feelings. Mother always say to that.

From the old family Bible, Coyet and Lillie McKey found encouragement and faith to raise eight children through some very hard times. Today the old family Bible (pages like parchment and badly worn) is put away (wrapped in red and green Christmas paper).

My parents and five of those eight children have gone on. But...I wonder, do they still come for Christmas at the old house with the tall ceiling, a warm fire, and beautiful holly trees with the red berries? Do they hear the laughter of small children and do they remember the red and green tissue paper?

I am thankful for loving parents, a good home life, and those red and green Christmas memories.
(Published in Ribbons and Roses)


Contributor: Elsie McKey Overstreet was raised in Lavaca Counjty near the Navidad River, the youngest of eight children. She Graduated head of her class in Vocational Nursing from Del Mar College in Corpus Christi, Texas...now retired. She is a mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother. Her writing comes from a "burning in her heart" and she has a great love for animals.


WHEN HEAVEN SMILED

(Taken from Treasured Memories)


One early morning after awakening, I dressed, did my morning routine, and prepared to leave for my daily church service. I knew my spirit needed uplifting.

Several days prior, I had undergone surgery to remove a growth on my face. What I thought would be a simple burning of the area resulted in an agonizing one and one-half hour surgery and seventeen stitches along the left side of my nose and underneath my eye. The days of waiting for test results were tense.  Upon learning I was cancer free, how joyful I was.

Following the thirty-minute mass, worship and prayer, I came away with such peace and contentment, knowing God would help make my day. Driving home, I pondered on the day’s activities and decided on a course of action.

Several tasks came to mind...a visit to the nearby Post Office and a trip to the local dollar store. A very important package had to get in the mail before noon, and I needed supplies for home maintenance.

I changed from my dress clothes. Breakfast, for me, was some left-over coffee and a bagel on the run. Rushing into must-do tasks isn’t feasible, but I had chores around the house that need tending to upon my return.

Upon my arrival at the Post Office, I step out of my car with package in hand. I take a number. Within ten minutes, the Post Office has my package.

When leaving, I notice a young dark-haired woman about twenty-four years of age, assisted with a walker, walked slowly toward the door. My heart felt pity for her. Although she was capable of opening the push-button door, I rushed ahead to open it for her.

“Thank you sir, but I can manage,” she said, giving me a friendly smile.

Walking behind her, watching as she descended each step and then stepped over the curb. I breathed a deep sigh as she safely entered her car. God’s love was shown to a stranger by my good deed.


Next stop was the discount store to purchase supplies needed for in-home repairs. I parked my silver Honda and made my way into the store where I found the cashier stocking shelves.

The path I took led me past a greeting card department where an elderly lady stood. An eerie sensation swelled inside me; I smiled and thought, "She certainly reminds me of Grandmother." I continued on my path to the items of interest.

Suddenly, the elderly lady appeared next beside me. She wore a kindly smile on her time-worn face. Without a word, she held up two greeting cards.

She must not have enough money for the cards. I gladly handed her a dollar for the two cards, and she gave me a beautiful smile.

With my items selected and in a basket, I make my way to the checkout counter. With my transaction completed, the thought came to me that the elderly lady probably didn’t have change for the sales tax. I step back to get one last glimpse of the lady who reminded me of my grandma and found her in line. I tossed a dime, telling the cashier, “That’s for the tax on her cards.”

“Dobry rano,” I said to the elderly lady, and she smiled. Walking away was not easy; I hated to leave. Was this a test from God? I feel it might have been. Now, I’ve done two good deeds in a row.

With two errands, and two good deeds, accomplished, it was time to return home and begin my in-home repairs. However, it would be with a lighter heart than expected.

Waiting in the wings upon my return, I had to make a visit to my next door neighbor.

I rang the door bell and waited.

The door opened, and my neighbor greeted me with a smile, “Come on in,” he said. “Let’s go to the dining room upstairs, so we can talk.” I followed him to the dining room. He and I share a bit of sparing and trying to outdo the other with jokes.

Glancing at my watch, I knew it was time for me to get to the repair work at hand. Before leaving, though, I wanted to learn how the family that was in dire straits was doing. The news was not good, and it saddened my heart to learn of the seriousness of the situation.

Slowly, I reach for my wallet, pulling it from my pocket and reached inside for my contribution.

“Eddie, I know the misery this poor family is facing. I know what it’s like to endure pain and suffering. I hope this contribution will be of help.” For the third time today, my small contribution helped someone else.

I tell this story of one significant day, March 1, 2011, where my day began with attending church and ending with heaven’s smiling face upon me. My fervent hope is that kindness, hope, and charity will always prevail.

“Thank You, God. Heaven will always glow in my heart.”



Joseph A. Zapalac

Saturday, December 3, 2011

THE SHACK ON CHESTNUT HILL

The following story by Lora Mitchell comes from our latest book, Treasured Memories. We hope you enjoy the story and will purchase our book from amazon.com. 




No one had to tell us we lived in a shack. We knew we lived in a shack. Sitting in plain sight at the bottom of Chestnut Hill, it was in sorry shape and ugly to look at, but we loved it.

Six of us lived in that rundown shack; Mom, Pop, Granny and three wee ones; Joey, Lucy and Sasha. Everybody called us The Three Shoos; Big Shoo, Middle Shoo and me, Little Shoo.

Granny, who grew up in the Old Country, became frazzled when we got underfoot or in her way, so she waved us away with the only English word she knew, “Shoo. Shoo. Shoo.” And so it stuck.

Some townspeople wanted our rundown shack condemned and torn down because it was an eyesore, but Pop promised we would live in it until they kicked us out. That is what we did, and we were secure and happy.

All around us were fancy three-story houses. They had wrap-around porches, tall brick chimneys, gabled roofs, balconies, manicured lawns, landscaped shrubs, and pretty flower beds. My favorite house had beautiful race horses fenced in and grazing in the backyard. We watched them from the sidewalk because we were forbidden to set foot on the property.

Pop said these houses were well-kept Victorian mansions, and some were over a hundred years old. Mom worked inside these fancy houses during spring cleaning and told us wonderful stories. She talked about the deep velvet sofas, heavy satin drapes, oriental rugs, delicate china teacups, silver candlesticks, cozy fireplaces, and indoor toilets with bathtubs. It all sounded like a fairytale.

Our cozy shack was actually a two-family house. We lived on the south side, and a stooped, birdlike Babushka lady lived on the north side with her grandson named Boogie Boy. He got that name because he was not right in the head and was as scary as the Boogie Man. When he was young, he spent three years in a reform school for giving his teacher a black eye.

One day, he went crazy and started a big fire in his bedroom. His grandma cried when the state police took him away. We never saw him again. A few weeks later, his grandma died. Mom said she died of a broken heart. We three Shoos were sorry for the Babushka lady but happy Boogie Boy was gone. We were finally free to come and go as we pleased, without worrying if he was going to spook us, interrupt our play with crazy talk and chase us back inside.

We enjoyed Chestnut Hill. After a snowstorm, few cars drove by, so we spent the days tobogganing and sledding. Some lucky kids owned Red Flyers, while others used tin washboards or flattened cardboard boxes. Big Shoo had an old wooden sled with steel runners, long enough for Middle and Little Shoo to ride behind while he held a piece of Moms clothesline and steered with his feet.

The hill was also perfect for roller skating. At the first peek of warm weather and the birth of budding apple blossoms, we took turns using Big Shoos roller skates. He clamped the metal skates to the bottom of our shoes and with a key hanging around his neck, he cranked the skates smaller for Middle Shoo and even smaller for me. A few scraped elbows and bruised knees didnt stop us from sailing down our wonderful hill.

A cranky farmer named Cybudski, who lived on top of the hill, had a large fruit orchard. He chased other kids away, but because Big Shoo was his paper boy and mowed his lawn, he let us roam free to fill up our little baskets.  We loved the sweet, plump cherries, and he offered us a nickel each to chase the pesky birds away. No matter how early we raced up the hill, the birds always beat us to it.

During cold months, the coal-burning stove was our only source of heat. Pop put chicken eggs behind the stove to incubate baby chicks. We babysat for hours, then squealed with delight at the first sign of a crack and watched almost breathless as the brittle shells fell away. Skinny, pink, furless legs struggled to break free, followed by bald heads with beady eyes. These funny looking, newborns grew into soft, yellow fuzz balls; so tiny they fit in the palms of our little hands. Fully grown, they were penned in the chicken coop to lay eggs. It was a shocking and upsetting time when we learned that some of our pet chickens ended up on the Sunday dinner table.
 

We had a small, brown, shortwave radio, which sat on the kitchen table. While ironing or crocheting, Mom listened to her daytime soaps, Guiding Light and Ma Perkins and swooned over Gene Autrys cowboy singing. At night, we huddled around and listened to shows like Fibber McGee and Molly, Abbott and Costello, Amos and Andy, and Jack Benny. Big Shoos favorite was The Lone Ranger, and we laughed ourselves silly listening to Baby Snooks. There were two scary shows, which made us shiver with fear and hide behind Pops chair; Inner Sanctum with its squeaky door and The Shadows creepy laugh.

The radio was also our door to the real world. We listened to Gabriel Heatter and Edward R. Murrow who reported the news of people suffering because of a Great Depression, with hungry people out of work and standing in line for apples. We heard about a big war happening over-seas. We learned strange names like Hitler, Mussolini, Stalin, Nazis, and a place called Pearl Harbor, which put fear in our hearts. President Roosevelt held fireside chats to tell us we had nothing to fear and heartwarming patriotic songs lifted everyones spirits. Songs like “My Buddy,” “Over There,” “When Johnny Comes Marching Home Again,” and Moms favorite, “Ill Be Seeing You.”

Mom said most poor people were foolish pipe dreamers. Because we were happy and had plenty to eat, I didnt think we were poor, but we did a lot of dreaming, especially for things we didnt have.

Every year, we waited for the new Sears and Roebuck Catalog because only then were we allowed to tear up the old one and cut out pictures of things we dreamed about. Big Shoo tore out a Red Flyer, Babe Ruths glove, Ted Williams baseball bat, Hopalong Cassidys cowboy hat and Roy Rogers cowboy boots. Middle Shoo and I snipped out pretty party dresses, Buster Brown and Mary Jane shoes, Sonia Henie figure skates, Shirley Temple baby dolls, and furniture for our cardboard box doll house.

We saved pictures of toys for Santas wish list, but thats all it was, a wish list. Even though we had a kitchen chimney and left cookies and milk, Santa never stopped at our house. Big Shoo said Santa emptied out his toy sack for the kids in the fancy houses, so there was nothing left for us. Middle Shoo thought Santa passed over because he got his belly full from their rich hot cocoa and sweet honey cakes. Since Santas toy sack was empty and had no more room in his belly, we ate the cookies and hoped that he would pack extra toys and remember us next year.

Nobody knew if Pop had a dream, but we all knew Moms dream.  She wanted us to have our own house one day. There were no fancy Victorian mansions in her dream. She wanted a simple, modern, ranch house, just like the one Patty Ryans daddy built, down near the river. It would have a large, sunny, picture window, wall-to-wall carpeting, because she hated our linoleum floors, indoor plumbing, and heat in every room. It would also include enough land for a vegetable garden, apple trees, and lilac bushes.

Pop promised he would buy a house but Mom only laughed, saying it was another one of his big whoppers. Big Shoo had to explain to me what a whopper was. Middle Shoo said Pops promises never came true, but I wanted this whopper to come true. We all did.

One night, while decorating a small Christmas tree, Pop climbed down the rickety, uneven attic stairs. He carried two large green-tinted pickle jars filled with shiny, golden-brown pennies.

He poured the pennies over Moms bed. Jumping with glee, we Shoos took turns making penny snow angels. Tossing pennies in the air, we shrieked, “Mom, look. We are rich. We are rich. Pop can buy us a new house now.”


Mom laughed, and said, "Papa will have to fill a few more pickle jars before we can afford that new house."


Right then and there, we promised to save every single penny that came our way to fill those extra pickle jars. Big Shoo even promised to give up his favorite Bazooka bubble gum.

One chilly Harvest Moon night, a knock on the door changed our cozy shack life forever. The Big Bad Wolf, with a huge, purple-veined, bulbous nose and a fat, bubble-bottom lip, appeared in the doorway. He was carrying a piece of paper in his hairy, claw-like hand. While reading the paper, Pops shoulders slumped over, his hands shook, and his face turned stone white.

The townspeople voted. Our shack was condemned, and we had two weeks to move out. Mom screamed; we Shoos sobbed and Granny, confused and scared, blubbered toothless in her foreign tongue.

Pop borrowed Uncle Maxs large produce farm truck. We Shoos rode in the back among packed boxes, furniture, chicken crates, and Uncles burlap bags filled with onions, cabbages and potatoes.

With Mom and Granny riding in front with our precious radio, Pop drove slower than usual because of his extra heavy load. As the truck pulled away, with sad little hearts as heavy as the low valley fog and eyes as misty as the morning dew, we waved goodbye to our beloved shack at the bottom of Chestnut Hill.

© 2011 Lora Mitchell

 Lora Mitchell, former actress and model, grew up in a small Western Massachusetts town; she now resides in New York City. A published writer, Lora’s, Getting Together, won the first prize for the best poem in the anthology titled Love in New York. Cabaret singers performed and showcased her songs, and she has also written several plays. Lora continues to write short stories and is currently working on a memoir trilogy and a novel based on a nursing home daily journal.

(Thank you for reading. You are invited to post a comment and/or reaction below. vmw)




Friday, December 2, 2011

THE WONDER OF ADVENT

Advent begins on the fourth Sunday before Christmas Day, which is the Sunday nearest November 30, and ends on Christmas Eve.

Advent is one of the few Christian festivals that can be observed in the home as well as at church. In its association with Christmas, Advent is a natural time to involve children in activities at home that directly connect with worship at church. In the home an Advent wreath is often placed on the dining table and the candles lighted at meals, with Scripture readings preceding the lighting of the candles, especially on Sunday. A new candle is lighted each Sunday during the four weeks, and then the same candles are lighted each meal during the week. In this context, it provides the opportunity for family devotion and prayer together, and helps teach the Faith to children, especially if they are involved in reading the daily Scriptures. It is one of the few Christian festivals that can be celebrated in the home as well as at church.

It is a spirit of expectation, of anticipation, or preparation, of longing. There's a yearning for deliverance from the evils of the world, first expressed by God's Chosen in Egypt as they cried out from their bitter oppression.

Advent is a time, marked by prayer. Advent prayers are prayers of humble devotion and commitment, of submission, and for deliverance.

Many churches and families acknowledge the Advent with the Advent Wreath. It is a circular wreath with five candles...four around the wreath (usually three purple and one rose) and a white one in the center, which represents Christ. The wreath is symbolic and a vehicle to tell the Christmas story.

The circle of the wreath reminds us of God himself...he is never ending. The green of the wreath speaks of hope and the renewal of life. The candles symbolize the light of God coming into the world by the birth of His son.

The four outer candles represent the waiting period during the four Sundays of Advent...which symbolize the four centuries of waiting between the prophet Malachi and the birth of Christ.

On the first Sunday, the first purple candle (Hope) is lit. On the second Sunday, the first candle and second purple candle (Love) are lit. On the third Sunday, the first two candles and the third purple candle (Joy) are lit. On the fourth Sunday, all three purple candles and the rose (Peace) candle is lit. All candles plus the white Christ candle are traditionally lit on Christmas Eve or Christmas Day.

If our hope is only in our circumstance, we will always be disappointed. That's why we hope, not in circumstance, but God. He has continually revealed Himself to be a God above all gods. The best example: His crucifixion and resurrection. He is our Hope.

Those who have suffered and still hope understand far more about God and about life than those who have not. Maybe that is what hope is about: a way to live, not just to survive, but to live authentically amidst all the problems of life with a Faith that continues to see possibility when there is no present evidence of it, just because God is God. That is also the wonder of Advent.

~Vada for...
Vada and Joe

Thursday, December 1, 2011

HOME FOR THE HOLIDAYS

How wonderful it would be to be able to go home for the holidays. Since that is impossible for many, let's enjoy a little holiday music and the feel of home. http://youtu.be/rjUDwQBM2KA  (click on the link and enjoy)

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As a young girl growing up in the country, Mama and Daddy made sure "Santa" made his visits to my younger sister and me. It was always a fun time of the year.

As we grew into adulthood and had families of our own, Mama made sure her home was decorated to the hilt and the tree was decorated just so. Christmas was her favorite time of the year.

Her very last Christmas was 2004. She was living with me and my husband because of her health. I was weary from caring for her and didn't want to put up a tree. 

"Can't we just put up a tiny tree so we can look at the lights," she said.

I gave a sigh and said, "I guess so, Mama." I went to the nearest Hobby Lobby and bought a four-foot tree with lights already on it. The decorations were simple . It mattered not; she loved the lights.

To this day, that tiny tree has stood in my den...never taken down. Our two-year old grandson, Braden, likes to rearrange the teal, gold, and magenta colored ornaments...or try to bounce them like balls, making it necessary to re-decorate the tree once again.

It's a sad looking tree. What do you expect after being up for seven years. I just don't have the heart to take down Mama's last tree. Today's goal is to remove all the decorations and redecorate...after all it is December 1.  May the sights and sounds of this season bring joy to your hearts. May the true meaning be expressed to each and everyone.

A Note from Joseph:
I am appreciative of my grandparents for making it possible in achieving life's goals. I owe them much and for what they have given me. This is the best Christmas present I could have--the gift of life, love, friendship, and all that seemed so impossible from long ago. What more could I ask for?

P.S. This photograph shows that I did accomplish my goal for today. I opted for gold this year.


MERRY CHRISTMAS EVERYONE!

~Vada and Joseph